Why we should embrace boredom

Our generation has an obsession with doing as much as possible, all the time. It’s like the more busy and stressed out you are, the more you’re “winning” at life. This coronavirus quarantine has got me thinking about the flaws with this way of thinking, why we should change it, and also how we can…

I used to be a Cool Girl

If you’re unfamiliar with the term “Cool Girl”, I can highly recommend watching this video before reading the rest of this post – it’s incredibly well done and explains the trope really well, with lots of examples. A Cool Girl is basically someone who embodies typical male traits (gobbles down burgers and hot dogs, drinks…

Words, words, words. They’re everywhere and I hate them.

It’s a bit ironic that this text in fact contains quite a few words. But I feel like words are everywhere and I’m sick of it.   Let me explain.   If you’ve read Marie Kondo’s The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying, you’ll know she advocates removing labels from things. And not just the “remove the…

Why Ross and Emily were the Ultimate Friends Couple

Emily gets a lot of hate (probably because the creators couldn’t bring themselves to have Ross end up with someone British) and frankly I think it’s misplaced. Ross and Emily should have ended up together, and here is why. Why Ross and Rachel were NOT the ultimate couple.  First of all, we need to establish…

The Fog

I want to start with a disclaimer. This post is NOTHING LIKE the rest of my posts. It’s literally one giant metaphor centred around mathematical understanding (I usually write about effective ways to clean your flat). In case anyone’s interested, I’m just about to finish a Ph.D. in pure maths, and so I wanted to…

The Road to Self-Care

This week I thought I’d try something a little different. This post doesn’t really have a point – it’s basically about my life and what I’ve learnt over the past year and a half or so. I suppose the conclusion is “self-care is important and isn’t bullshit”, but you can make of that what you…